This is our first Christmas without my stepdad, Raymond. I made ornaments for my mom, my sister and myself. I wish I could have done more. I am thinking of him last Christmas day sitting at the table drinking coffee with my husband. If only I had known then that it would be our last I would have lingered longer, hugged him tighter and longer....at that time we had no idea he was sick. Let us all remember to take some extra time today and tell someone that we love them.